Wait!! am yet to start my post, just searching for an unconventional word or line to start the post. Its too easy to start a post wtih "I", "Why","Long", well the list is unending. So, lets start the post with this...
Bhaag Dhanno, basanti ki izzat ka sawal hai!!!!!
This is a popular dialogue, but surely an unconventional way. All of us at some point of time in life, do feel quite disheartened, discouraged, and look down on ourselves. I Guess its quite normal, coz just like in a span of 24hrs, its not all sunny and surely not all cloudy. Similarly we do have variations in our mood. We do react differently to different things. Each one of us have our moments of glory & darkness.
But, I hate it, when you are puzzled with the conspiracies around you and you have been charged of being naive. To top it up, again & again you actually prove yourself to be naive. Now, thats what I call, washing a washed cloth. Pitai to baar baar ho hi rahi hai na?? Dhull gaya sara confidence, ab kya??
Dude, kabhi kabhi mood kharab hota hai to kya hua?? mast sa koi gaana gaane ka, kuch achcha khaane ka, ya phir naachane ka....Naaah!! too boring, aaj kal jisko dekho yahi karta hai...try something else. Sabse sasta aur tikau tareeka hai ki apna account FB se delete kar do :)
I have this friend of mine( no I am not telling you my story by taking someone elses name, I do have a friend like that) so daring and just ready to pounce on every opportunity that she gets. To be honest I always liked people who have high good confidence index. Personally, I have been a low ranker in this field. So whenever I meet some tough situation, I say this to my confidence, "Bhaag Dhanno, aaj basanti ki izzat ka sawal hai". You can actually imagine me, puffing myself like the Dog in "Tom & Jerry" show, charging at Tom.
Thanks to my friend A, for revealing the rule of "choti lakeer, badi lakeer". Whenever you feel you are too low or too high on confidence scale, always compare yourself with the other person. It will keep a check on you. But make sure dont compare yourself with a better person, when confidence index is low. It might be hazardous......
Yeah, I am also having my bad days, but its ok. There is no point in mourning for yesterday that is just gone and you can't do anything about it. I know its difficult to be happy, its difficult to have guts to say "please listen to me" and at times its even more difficult to figure out as to why?? God damn why you were born?? But still, I believe its always safe to remain what you are, the real you, the one you know deep down inside, but nobody in this whole world knows, not even your family. I am pretty sure that God has made each one us a "Happy Soul". I truely believe that there is a setting between you and Him to remain the actual self, with which we were born.
I read this on internet and its worth quoting here.
There is no point in punishing yourself for someone else's mistakes. It doesn't matter if the person who has done this to you is in the past or present. Don't let somebody else, who crushed your life inspiration, to crush your right and your duty TO BE HAPPY!!
